From
the talk of Gordon B. Hinckley, “Stand
True and Faithful” I found this quotes very interesting:
“We believe in being true. How very important it is to
be true to ourselves. Each of us has a thing we call conscience. We know the
difference between right and wrong. We do not have to be instructed concerning
what is good and what is evil. I think we know that. We know when we have done
the wrong thing, and we suffer pangs of conscience. We know when we have done
the right thing, and we experience a sense of happiness. To be true to
ourselves means being an example of righteous living in all situations and
circumstances.”…
“He wants His sons and daughters to be happy. Sin never
was happiness. Transgression never was happiness. Disobedience never was
happiness. The way of happiness is found in the plan of our Father in Heaven
and in obedience to the commandments of His Beloved Son, the Lord Jesus Christ.”…
“He invites us to come unto Him. He has said to each of
us, “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it
shall be opened unto you” (Matt. 7:7).
Pray to the Father in His name. None of us can really make it alone. We
need help, the kind of help that can come in answer to prayer.“…
“You are so very important. This work
is so much the stronger because of you. Whenever you step over the line in an
immoral act or in doing any other evil thing, the Church is that much weaker
because of what you have done. When you stand true and faithful, it is that
much stronger. Each one of you counts.”
From “The 7 Habits Of
Highly Effective People” by STEPHEN R. COVEY this were the insights that stood
out to me:
“… no matter how much
a person works on their attitude, they won’t change if they don’t change their
perceptions.”…” The character ethic taught there are basic principles of
effective living, and that people can only experience true success and enduring
happiness as they integrate those principles into their personal character.”
“The seven habits
embody many of the fundamental principles of human effectiveness. They
represent the internalization of correct principles upon which enduring
happiness and success are based.”
“The 7 Habits are a
new level of thinking - a paradigm shift based on a principle-centered,
character-based inside-out approach to personal effectiveness.
“Proactive people are
highly responsible. Proactivity means to subordinate impulses to values.
Reactive people are swept away by the heat of the moment. Proactive people are
driven by values that are both well thought out and internalized. It is not
what happens that is important. It is our response to whatever happens that
makes all the difference. Often, the most difficult circumstances become
crucibles that forge our character and develop hidden reserves of strength.
What matters most in life is not what happens to us, but how we respond to
whatever happens. Our basic nature is to act, not to wait to be acted upon. We
have the ability to take the initiative in any situation we are in. Everyone
either waits to be acted on or takes responsibility for their own course and
make the appropriate decisions. Being proactive doesn’t mean being pushy,
aggressive or insensitive. Rather, proactivity means to control a situation
from the inside out. Or in other words, to affect positive change, stop
focusing on the immediate circumstances and instead consider your response to
the conditions that exist. Do that and you have removed the power of anything
external to affect you.”
“A particularly
effective way to get into the habit of beginning with the end in mind is to
write your own mission statement, philosophy or creed. This should focus on
what you want to be (character), do (contributions & achievements) and on
the values or principles upon which being and doing are based”
In Passion vs. Money, Guy Kawasaky states that “whatever
you build, it's about passion, and less about money. Your goals should be about
changing the world, or making the world a better place.” He also talks about
his experience growing up thinking that money was the most important thing in
life. He advises students to study abroad and to spend as much time learning as
possible.
Jim Ritchie gives us a
summary of the seven habits of highly effective people from the book of Steven
Covey:
1st Be
proactive (proactive people ≠ reactive people)
2nd Begin
with the end in mind
3rd First
things first
4th Think
win -win (but not at the expense of others)
5th First
seek to understand, then to be understood
6th Create
synergy
7th Sharpen
the saw
Which of the 7
habits has the most meaning for you and why?
I cannot say that of these seven habits one has more
meaning to me than other. From what I have read and that made sense to me, the
development of all these seven habits is what leads to success. We cannot do
one of these habits and let other equally important behind if we want to
achieve success. But the development of these habits is a process.
However, there were two that stood out most in my
mind. The first “Be proactive” and the fourth “Think win – win”: Be proactive
because man has the ability to be an acting agent and not only be the person
that gets the action. I believe that great entrepreneurs understand very well
this concept; and Think win-win because both parties benefit from this
relationship.